Light Love and Potty Training!
I am potty training my two year old London.
She is my 4th to be trained and it is much easier this time, then with the others.
I created this technique for a friend that was stressed to max while trying to potty train
her 3 year old Mia. She was tired and ready to give up when she called me. I am a firm
believer that if you stress and wallow in anything you attract it to yourself, so my first
advise was to let go of the need to get it done. Let go of all the rude comments that people
make when they see a 3 year old in diapers, and forgive them and yourself.
This does NOT define you as a parent!
So the 1st step is forgiveness.
I like the Ho’oponono secret weapon for forgiveness!
Say this over and over until you can feel a shift in your energy around potty training!
“I love you, I forgive you, I am sorry, I love you, I forgive you, I am sorry”
This will allow you to forgive yourself and others for any rude comments that were made.
Quick tip: Don’t potty train when the family is going through anything traumatic. Your toddler will take to potty training with lightning speed if you train them in a happy environment.
The second step is surrogate EFT Tapping!
Surrogate tapping is simply connecting with another persons energy through an intention, to do so for the highest good of that person. So my surrogate potty training tapping for London was this…..
If you are not familiar with the EFT tapping points or if you would like to know why EFT works go to the page on this site called Why Does Tapping Work or click on the link at the bottom of this page.
Start with the karate chop point tapping…..
I am London and even though I am learning something new I deeply love and accept myself….
I am London and even though its hard to remember to go use the potty I deeply love and accept myself…..
I am London and even though I have to stop playing to use the bathroom I deeply love and accept myself…
Go to the top of the head tapping and move your way through all the rest of the EFT tapping points while claiming problem statements like these, that fit your toddlers personal issues with potty training.
Then drink some water and do a round of claiming the positive statements like….
Start with the Karate chop point tapping…..
I am London and I learn new stuff quickly and easily…..
I am London and I will remember to go use the potty when I have to go….
I am London and I am using the potty all the time now…
It is easy for me……
Go to the top of the head tapping and move your way through all the rest of the EFT tapping points while claiming positive statements like these, that fit your toddlers personal issues with potty training.
Quick Tip: Don’t use pull ups! Just like diapers do, they draw moisture away from the skin and children don’t pay attention to wetness and neither do busy parents. Get plenty of undies and wash them as you go. Yes its more work initially, but it will only take a couple of days to get through training. It is my experience that using pull ups only delays progress.
The 3rd step is intention.
Make the intention early on to stay calm and positive while doing this difficult task.
Make the intention for potty training to be easy for you and your ever evolving toddler.
It helps to not put any time limits on potty training. The time you have set and the time your toddler has in mind are going to be different.
Make the intention NOT to have any expectation of how quick your child has to learn how to do this task.
The 4th step in go crazy with empowerment!
London you can do this!
London, I am so proud of you!
Its easy for you to learn things!
You are getting it! You did it!
You are super potty princes!
Dance, sing and be loud when they do use the potty.
Use encouraging words when they forget to.
Its ok! Your are going to get this.
I am proud of you whether you use the potty or not.
I love you and we will master this together!
Quick tip: If there are any other kids in the house, ask them to take your toddler to the bathroom with them, and show them the bathroom do’s and don’ts! Young children are going to learn from other kids before they learn from you. You can use that to your advantage while potty training!
My take on just about everything is….. its easier to clear negative energies around it, than to take action and have to work really hard at accomplishing it. Potty training is no different. Each one of the steps above are healthy steps to loving energy and loving potty training vibration.
Everything in this world is energy and the only power we have to change anything is through the power of love……..
